I have a partner who is not very sympathetic to my crafty nuances and my wish to adorn my home with crochet. He won’t be taken in when I tell him that crochet and craft is all on trend. He associates granny squares with grannies.
We live in a fairly modern red brick built estate. The estate is now about 15 years old so the trees and planting has softened the edges somewhat.
As much as in my dreams I would live in a Yorkshire stone built period property we bought this one , our first property together, five years ago for the cost, space and lack of maintenance.
None the less these houses lend themselves to a modern decor with contemporary furnishings, not one which lends itself to that overused ubiquitous term ‘shabby chic’.
The other problem is my partner ;). He is fond of an androgynous look. Not too feminine and definitely uncluttered.
Now I’m all for uncluttered, but I also enjoy seeing things I’ve made about the house and looking at your own curtains and blinds does not quite do it for me.
So I have taken to sneaking things in where I can.
Here a decoupage duck sits upon a plate in the kitchen that gathers keys, hair clips, bottle tops and pins until its pile is high enough to warrant finding each thing a home.
I have got away with these three felt birds that seem to have gone unnoticed, on the black side board in the living room.
A rabbit doorstop passes muster due to its functional properties.
And an owl cushion views the room from the top of the sofa.
Upstairs, banished to the spare room, sits my lovely crochet cushion which I made in subtle colours with a view to go in the living room. Unbelievably this was rejected to the spare room!!
One place I can be assured of a crafty welcome is in my daughter’s room. Amongst my makes is this felt bird cushion.
And this felt heart hangs which hangs on her blue wall.
The key, I think, is to make items which are both functional, unique and contemporary. I think my twine crochet baskets fit the bill perfectly.
Come Christmas, his guard is down, and my daughter and I fill the house with hand-made clay, fimo and felted animals, snowmen, and snowflakes.
Maybe he’ll soften. I’ll not hold my breath.
hi Lucie, the key is to sneak it in a little at a time LOL!
Absolutely. But sometimes even a big bag of wool is enough for him.
I think he might soften. He’ll get used to seeing all the pretty crafts around & it’ll just seem normal. I hope so anyway.
I’ll work on him!
Such lovely things, I can’t imagine someone not wanting them on display in the house. Good thing you can sneak some in without being noticed. I just love that twine basket!
Thankyou. I’ve made a few more of the baskets. I’ll have to show you.
Forget it Lucie, I have tried to sneak things in for years, and he who loves to spread his things out where he can find them, will ban an ornament or a cushion as though it was the devils work. I have a ceramic box with a chicken on it, a tiny thing and it has been moved backwards and forwards by us, out of a corner on the kitchen windowsill, a centimetre at a time, for 2 years now! So my work room is where things live till even I give them away. As you say, useful things seem to be acceptable. Still you can have fun trying.
I once crocheted him a tie which he actually wore but it was the sixties and we were newly married!
Ah, young love!
Your reply made me laugh!
Oh my word! That crochet cushion is GORGEOUS!!!! Do you have a pattern? xxx
Watch this space! xx
I’m sure we can find a cozy corner for your husband in the garage with my craft buster hubby. He was banished there 9 years ago and peace has prevailed. For Christmas this year, we are going to crochet him a new blanket in rainbow colours 🙂
Ha, ha! That made me laugh! We get married this year, after 10 years of craft wars. And yes, the wedding will involve a lot of craft!
Keep up the good work!